Dear friends,
At the LOVE>hate Retreat in October, we committed to create “brave space” with each other. This led to deep connection and bonding, which led to powerful reflection, which led to a creative explosion, and now new aligned vision and action.
There is a certain indescribable magic present within our team now. We want to extend this magic outward and invite you to create “brave space” in your communities too.
Just what is a “brave space”? And how does it differ from a “safe space”? Where did this term originate and how can we bring these practices into our daily lives?
Safe Spaces vs. Brave Spaces
Safe spaces and brave spaces are often confused for one another, and while they are similar and can exist at the same time, they are both unique in how they hold space for people to authentically share and be themselves.
Safe spaces, traditionally rooted in creating environments where individuals can express themselves without fear, have been vital for those who felt on the fringes or experienced discrimination. These spaces aim to provide comfort and support for individuals to share their experiences freely. However, they primarily focus on offering emotional safety and solace, which can sometimes limit the scope of discussions that can occur in these charged environments.
The emergence of brave spaces signifies a shift in the way we approach conversations about inclusion and belonging. Brave spaces challenge the notion of “total safety,” acknowledging that the world we inhabit is far from perfect. Because of this, they are designed to encourage open and honest conversations, even when addressing uncomfortable and controversial topics. The quote by Micky Scott Bey Jones beautifully captures this essence:
“AN INVITATION TO BRAVE SPACE” – Micky Scott Bey Jones
Together we will create brave space
Because there is no such thing as ‘safe space’
We exist in the real world
We all carry scars and we have all caused wounds.
In this space
We seek to turn down the volume of the outside world,
We amplify voices that fight to be heard elsewhere,
We call each other to more truth and love
We have the right to start somewhere and continue to grow.
We have the responsibility to examine what we think we know.
We will not be perfect.
This space will not be perfect.
It will not always be what we wish it to be
But
It will be our brave space together,
And
We will work on it side by side.”
This powerful quote underscores the significance of brave spaces in our quest for personal growth and societal progress. While safe spaces offer solace, brave spaces invite individuals to confront their biases, engage in self-reflection, and address difficult truths, ultimately leading to positive change.
Practicing Brave Spaces
Practicing brave spaces involves a commitment to active listening, empathy, and a willingness to challenge preconceived notions. It is not about achieving perfection but about progress and growth. Participants collaborate to create an environment that is safe enough to explore discomfort and confront biases.
In a brave space, individuals work together to break down the barriers that separate us. While safe spaces continue to serve a valuable purpose, it is the combination of both safe and brave spaces that empowers us to create a world where everyone can thrive, irrespective of their background or identity.
As we continue on this journey toward ENDing interpersonal violence, promoting forgiveness, and presencing love, embracing brave spaces is crucial. These spaces foster understanding, empathy, and unity among all, contributing to a more inclusive and accepting society.
Join us in creating more brave spaces and learn more about how you can support our mission today.
